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You know what irks me? It’s when someone thinks their right to unencumbered pleasure overrules my right to my physical health and safety. Sorry (actually, I’m not) my health is more valuable and important to me than your desire to not have the absolute minimal of material between yourself and me.
You won’t suffer. In fact, you’ll probably last longer. Isn’t that what you want? Muttering things about it taking away all feeling and sensation is just nonsense.
Do you know what ‘stealthing’ is? It’s removal of a condom without the knowledge or consent of the other person. Do you know what it’s called when you remove consent? Rape.
My consent is given with a condom. It is explicitly denied without one. Stealthing (removing or damaging a condom) is a deliberate non-consensual act. Think on that for a moment. And another moment.
If you remove a condom, you remove consent, and I will immediately cease our interactions and take appropriate further legal action.
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